If you are a parent, you probably have mixed feelings about family photos. You want beautiful images of your children while they are little, but you also worry about meltdowns, wiggly toddlers, uncooperative teens and that one kid who refuses to look at the camera. Here is the truth from photographers who work with children every week: perfect behavior is not required for perfect photos.
Some of our most treasured images are the messy, joyful, unscripted moments – a toddler running toward the waves, siblings collapsing into giggles, a baby grabbing dad’s nose. In this guide we share our best tips for preparing kids of every age, planning your session around them and keeping everyone happy so your Maui family photos feel real and full of life.
Timing is the single biggest factor in how kids behave. Think about their routines:
Babies and toddlers often do best in the morning after a good night’s sleep or after a nap.
Avoid scheduling during usual nap times or right before meals.
Many visiting families find kids wake early due to the time difference, which makes sunrise sessions surprisingly easy.
Older kids and teens often prefer evening sessions so they do not have to wake up early.
Avoid scheduling your session on travel days or right after a long excursion. Kids who are tired, jet-lagged or overstimulated are more likely to struggle. Schedule your session early in the trip when everyone is fresh, but give little ones at least a day to adjust to the new time zone.
Let kids know what to expect in simple, positive terms. For example: “We’re going to the beach to play and a friendly photographer will take pictures of our family.” Avoid putting pressure on them to behave perfectly or smile on command.
Kids who are uncomfortable will let you know! Choose soft, breathable fabrics, avoid scratchy materials and make sure clothes fit well. Let kids try on outfits before the session. Bare feet on the sand are perfect.
Hungry kids are unhappy kids. Make sure everyone eats a good snack or meal before the session.
Water bottles for everyone.
Mess-free snacks, such as crackers or fruit pouches (avoid anything that stains or gets sticky).
A favorite small toy, especially for toddlers.
Wipes and a small towel.
A change of clothes for little ones, in case of a surprise wave or spill.
Sunscreen applied in advance.
One of the most helpful things parents can do is let the photographer interact with the kids. We use games, jokes, silly sounds and playful prompts to get genuine smiles. When multiple adults call out “smile!” at once, kids often get confused or look in different directions.
Instead of worrying about whether everyone is looking at the camera, focus on connecting with your kids: hug them, tickle them, whisper silly secrets. Those real interactions create the most beautiful images.
We use prompts like:
“Run to the water and back!”
“Give mom the biggest squeeze you can.”
“Who can make the silliest face?”
“Whisper something funny in dad’s ear.”
“Let’s spin around and fall in the sand!”
These prompts create movement, laughter and natural expressions.
If a child gets upset, it is okay to pause. A quick snack, a drink of water, a hug or a few minutes of free play often resets the mood. We are patient and experienced with little ones.
Kids pick up on their parents’ stress. If you stay calm and positive, they will be more likely to relax too. Remember: a few tears or a grumpy moment are completely normal, and we will still capture plenty of beautiful images.
Plan around feeding and nap schedules.
Bring a pacifier or comfort item.
Close, cuddly poses with parents work beautifully.
Keep babies shaded and comfortable; avoid strong sun.
Expect constant movement – and embrace it!
Let them explore and play; we will capture the action.
Short bursts of posing work better than long ones.
Bring a favorite toy or snack for motivation.
Games and challenges keep them engaged.
Give them small “jobs,” such as holding the lei or leading a walk.
Praise them often and keep the energy fun.
Treat them like adults and involve them in planning.
Let them have a say in their outfits.
Avoid forcing cheesy smiles; natural expressions look better.
Include a few individual portraits they will love for social media.
Maui’s beaches are beautiful but the ocean can be powerful. We always keep children a safe distance from the waves and never ask kids to stand in the surf. Parents should keep a close eye on little ones, especially near rocks, tide pools and water. Lava rock can be sharp and slippery, so we choose safe, easy spots for families.
Praise your kids for a great job and celebrate with a treat like shave ice! Positive memories of the photoshoot make future sessions easier. Many families book photos every time they visit Maui, creating a beautiful record of how their children grow.
It is rare for a child to cry for an entire session. Most children warm up after a few minutes. Even if there are tears, we often capture tender comforting moments that become favorites.
That is fine! Candid moments of kids looking at each other, at the ocean or at their parents are often more meaningful than posed images.
Small rewards after the session can be very motivating. Just avoid giving sticky or messy treats during the shoot.
We love working with families and children of all ages. Our relaxed, playful approach helps kids feel at ease so you can enjoy the experience and receive natural, joyful photos you will treasure forever.
Email: aloha@808.pictures | Call: 808 757 8500 – A 808 Pictures Company.